Why I Quit Social Media (Maybe) for Good

I have been under the weather these past few days. It’s a combination of the flu, the seasonal allergies, a mild case of muscle strain and last but not the least, the WebMD paranoia that I have cancer. This calls for a complete bed rest.

So I spent a whole night trying to be productive while on the bed, binge watching Ted Talks. I can’t sleep because of the discomfort of allergies, and these talks comfort me. I watched plenty of these very addictive talks. From comet hunting to the scientific explanation of the paranormal to how the brain works. But one talk caught my attention. Quit Social Media by Dr. Cal Newport. The title was a cliche. It was an old idea in this new world. But I clicked and watched it anyway.

 

I will not explain what Newport talked about nor will I post the link here. I am pretty sure that one way or another, you have planned on quitting too.

 

I had my fair share on quitting social media before. I quit a million times, and I kept on coming back. I have 2 reasons why.

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Monday Recommendations – February 27, 2017

Yesterday, I was on my way to church, riding a Jeepney. I had to travel alone because my parents were in Manila to visit my mom’s uncle in the hospital. I sat near the entrance of the jeepney in front of the teenage guy wearing a white shirt and a red cap. Halfway our church, an older guy carrying a bunch of balloons rode the jeepney. He asked the teenage guy to move a bit and sat in front of me. I got pissed because the balloons were all over my face and blocked the entrance of the jeepney. I was actually in a bad mood that morning because my Sunday pants were all in the laundry. I had no choice but to wear the maroon pants which I only used during our office’s 80s themed party. And I had to commute wearing them. My mood changed when I saw the teenage guy looking at the balloons. He was reading what’s written on them and amazed by the red and blue balloons blocking the entrance. He’s fascinated as if it was his first time to see the balloons.

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Minimalizing. Is that even a word?

“I can’t go out tonight, I am minimalizing”, I said to my officemates when they invited me to go out for a coffee session last Friday night.

“Really, minimalizing? Is that even a word?”, one of them asked.

So after Googling it, there was actually a term but I am not sure how new the word was except that it has been used several times by those simple living blogs, where I also learned about the word. It’s still on red underline as I write this.

To minimalize the term, “minimalizing” means cutting down the excess. I started practicing this concept a couple of years ago but I fall short every once in a while when my auto-pilot consumerist behavior and tempting advertisements overpower this principle.  Some people would also discourage me and would often tell me that I cannot practice minimalism in the Philippines because we do not have enough. I would always think that minimalism is best to practice in a developing country where we need to challenge and question every capitalist-driven advertisements, products, and services. Where large companies where we hoard products are also the same companies which exploit the poor and abuse the resources of the country. Continue reading “Minimalizing. Is that even a word?”