#14 of 1001 Awesome Things: Girl Best Friends

September 2, 2017
Disclaimer: At this point, I am surrendering to the fact that I cannot do this writing challenge every day, but I will finish this 1001 Awesome Things project (trust me!). I am already lagging 6 posts since the “Free Starbucks Drink” post so it would be difficult for me to catch up)

Girl Best Friends
 
She was wearing a red cap, a black shirt, a brown skirt and a pair of brown shoes. Then I realized I was wearing the same colors. It’s either we looked like we were a couple or we were twins. Rica and I craved for Thai food and we decided to meet and eat at a local Thai restaurant today.  
 
Rica is my officemate. I was intimidated by her during her first day at work. She was quiet but strong. But when I had the chance to know her more, she was a nice girl. We even pretended to be in a relationship to make fun of our older office mates or to protect her from a creepy stalker
 
I have had girl best friends since God knows when. I remember my first girl best friend back in 2nd Grade and her name was Anne. We started out as enemies. I borrowed her notebook to write an important note (or to doodle a stick figure of a boy). I tore out the page and I got terrified that all the pages were removed from the bind. I wasn’t able to reason out because she saw what happened. Her favorite pink Barbie doll notebook was ruined. She was angry. After a couple of days and constant peace offerings, we became best friends. Today, she’s my personal doctor. I usually call her for everything that is happening in my body. Her favorite color now is purple and no longer pink. 
 
Anne and I went to the same highschool, but because she was a smartass, she was sorted to a higher section. Though we were still friends and she was irreplaceable, I had this bond with a weird girl in high school. Her name was Jess. We developed this friendship after a scary incident in school where she suddenly screamed and passed out during a Social Studies class about exorcism and the paranormal. Some of her friends claimed that during our freshmen year, they tried to play the spirit of the coin. Curious, I asked Jess what happened. “I don’t know what happened. I just passed out.” We became friends after that incident. The scary event did not happen again though I had to blame her for the sleepless nights I had because of it. 
 
Jessica and I did some pretty cool things together. While people were either reading science books or playing basketball, we were collecting dead insects and secretly investigating some school issues as if we were Nancy Drew and Joe/Frank Hardy. I remember the voice tape she took when I failed to attend our school’s stargazing activity. She asked our other friends to talk to the recorder as if I was there. After the event, she visited our house and gave the tape to me.  
 
But of course, college happened. Jessica and I went to different schools. We grew apart. We changed. But I have to admit that I was glad I had a friend like Jess who challenged me to be myself and to be weird. 
 
I have had girl best friends after that. Danielle, who I started to call Big Sister became my comfort zone during my first year in college. She was three years older than me so I usually come to her for wisdom and advice. When Danielle chose the night class over our usual morning class, Vanity became my constant companion. She was bubbly, pretty, wild and a party girl. She usually tells me to have fun while I am young. We were opposites but we had fun together. When I shifted a course and tried to audition for our university’s theatre organization,  I met Jogs. She was there to encourage me to show my talents. She was also adventurous so we traveled together, even after college. 
 
Hope you will not find this a sexist post, but every guy should at least have a girl best friend in his lifetime.  
Do you have a girl best friend? Share your stories below!
Featured Photo: Doctor Who and Rose Tyler of the longest running British TV Series Doctor Who. This is the best best friendship goals ever.
Ps.
You will understand the face of confusion when you have a girl best friend. They’re the wisest and the most strategic beings ever.
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#11 of 1001 Awesome Things: Sneezing

This was my Nth allergy day and this was the longest one I have had. The weather was unpredictable so the shifting temperature made me and most of the people I know sick.
 
The only thing I love about the allergy season is the sneezing part, especially those three in a row “achiiing.” (Not achoos)
 
I love the pleasure of the moment, even though headaches will usually come after. 
 
Sneezes take us to the NOW, that millisecond present moment where everything around us stops
 
Sneezes are orgasmic. Really, they are. If sexual orgasm is 10 out of 10, sneezes are 6/10.
 
I tried to research why sneezes are pleasurable. According to Dr. Holly Boyer, an ENT specialist at the University of Minnesota, “the muscle tension that builds up in your chest causes pressure, and when you sneeze and the muscles relax, it releases pressure. Anytime you release pressure, it feels good.” (Source:http://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2012/04/17/good-question-why-does-sneezing-feel-so-good/)
 
There was also an evidence that the body releases endorphins when we sneeze. These are the same hormones released when we exercise. 
 
Happy Allergy Season! 
 
P.S. My alternate awesome thing today was Babysitting! 
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#10 of 1001 Awesome Things: Empty Coffee Shops

August 28, 2017
In a country where coffee is now a staple to millennials and Gen Xers, empty coffee shops, especially those inside a mall, are hard to find.
Today is a holiday and surprisingly, we found an empty coffee shop inside a crowded mall.
Here are some of my reasons why Empty Coffee shops are awesome:
  1. More quiet workspace. Who wants to work at a crowded place, right? You don’t have distractions unless the barista is hot.
  2. Faster wifi. You don’t have to share the connection bandwidth.
  3. The aroma of the coffee is all yours.

Featured Photo: Empty Coffee Shop at Il Padrino SM Pampanga, City of San Fernando, Pampanga, Philippines, August 28, 2017

#8 of 1001 Awesome Things: Turo Turo and Tapsilogan

August 26, 2017
Travelling in the Philippines is cheap according to the budget travelers I met and hosted. When they ask me where they can eat a cheap meal, I always tell them to eat at small stores called Turo turo or Tapsilogan. And these stores are everywhere! 

 

Turo Turo, also known as Carinderias are practically everywhere. Turo means to point. You have to point out which viand you want to eat. You can find these stores in every street, every school and every parking area of jeepneys and tricycles. When I had the chance to talk to repatriated Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) in Syria a couple of years ago, most of them would tell me that they want a carinderia business

 

Tapsilogan is a coined term for Tapa (Cured Beef), Sinangag (Fried Rice) and Itlog (Egg). These stores are usually open at nighttime until early morning. A meal usually costs a dollar. 

 

These stores are not only popular to travelers but also for locals. As for me, a person who tries to become healthy in this Fast Food country, turo turo are my go-to stores to eat healthy meals. Not to mention the support you give to local entrepreneurs and a dirty finger to the Fat Bee and the Scary Clown. 

 

Earlier, my friends and I went to this turo turo near a University hospital. The place was tiny with only six tables and around 2 dozens of monoblock chairs. There were 4 vegetable viands and around 8 meat viands, both in stainless steel containers. I ordered the sauteed bitter gourd and this very tasty taro cooked in coconut milk. The 2 vegetable viands cost a dollar. It was cheap. It was healthy. It tasted like mom’s cooking. 

 

During dinner, we went to our favorite tapsilog place. I ordered TunaSilog and a bowl of tofu. They served it with soy sauce, a very sour green lime and my all time favorite chili paste. This costs around 2 dollars. 

 

I am not sure why we still eat at expensive unhealthy fast food chains when we have these local stores. If you happen to travel to the Philippines, make sure to try out turo turos, carinderias and tapsilogan.

#1 of 1001 Awesome Things: The 1001 Awesome Things Project

August 19,2017

I love self-help books. When I was a pre-teenager, I go to this book store at the center of our city and buy these kinds of books. I even remembered having a book entitled “Teenage Book of Manners” which I found helpful during our Prom Night. Fast-forward 15 years and I am still reading self-help books. I read them simultaneously. Sometimes I skim them and I can finish them in one sitting. Sometimes I sit down, take down notes, and read each sentence carefully

 

I am currently reading two books now, Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic and Neil Pasricha’s The Happiness Equation. Big Magic talks about the mystical aspects of creativity and how ideas are alive. The Happiness Equation talks about how happiness is a choice. While reading The Happiness Equation, I realized that the author was actually a guy I watched on the Ted Talk site 3 years ago. He also wrote a blog called The 1000 Awesome Things where he documented everyday awesome things we take for granted like finding money you didn’t know you lost or the smell of frying onions. He wrote the blog during his dark night of the soul and as expected, the blog helped him a lot in his recovery. In his book, Neil advised counting our blessings by writing/journalling five things we are grateful for every day

 

So as a response to this, I planned on adapting the 1000 Awesome Things project and I will be using this site as a channel. Of course, I will not be using the 1000 Awesome Things tag because I am not sure if this was under Neil’s Intellectual Property rights.  Instead, I will be using 1001 Awesome Things. How original right? Pardon me for my laziness to think of another title. But of course, I will still maintain the minimalist theme of the blog.

 

That’s it for Day 1.

 

PS. I love Ted Talks too. I quit social media because of a Ted Talk. Read here.

Featured Photo: A Mime at Jakarta, Indonesia, October 2015.